So what do you do when you have everything in place like it should be then you find out someone doesn't care for the way it was done and more or less trashes it all ..i personally think that I should be with some one for like 3 days and then like the person who doesn't care what it took to do all this and sit back and let it all fall till I get what I want ..Which in all aspects is what they are doing is doesn't matter what you do It's just for not ....