Well I'm not to much the type of person that has that in person I can switch to when things go bad, but what I do know that I care about things like family which even when I don't think I care I have a deep string attached to me that will keep around. I don't need to be watched or hang with any of them to know when things happen It's like I'm connected, and yes they call me even if it's to tell me thing are not going so good. Now with that I do have the side of me that is lost in a way that I wouldn't mess with either if I didn't have to ....